My ex is dating another woman
Shouting out the wrong name in bed is a common malpractice performed by many lesbians because we often date people with similar names.
I went on a whole “L” streak for a few years, where everyone I f*cked/dated had the first letter “L” in their names.
When you meet someone new, you will have a better perspective on how your ex is feeling about you and the relationship you both once had.
Most people are puzzled as to why they are jealous of someone they didn’t want in their life any longer. This was YOUR husband or YOUR wife, you expected fidelity, and now it may feel like cheating to see them with someone else.
It does not mean you are still in love but rather you are witnessing the evidence that your spouse now has someone else in the place you used to fill.
Though you may not understand the feelings you are having, they are a natural part of moving on after a divorce.
I used to read books, devour magazines, and have sex, but now I just scroll through Instagram because my life is both meaningless and sexless (I’m currently staying at my parent’s house in Florida. I was shocked as the breakup had been harrowing and messy (as dyke breakups tend to be) but there they were. ” I typed out in all caps, as I took popped an over the counter sleeping pill into my mouth. ” I asked her, feeling very much like a shady millennial dyke shrink, who treats her patients via text from her bedroom. Such a simple, yet such an emotionally jarring word.
Every time you experience a negative reaction to your ex dating, stop and go through the list of reasons you are no longer married.